🕒 "One day in the life of a sexologist: myths vs reality"Whe..

🕒 "One day in the life of a sexologist: myths vs reality"

When I tell people that I am a sexologist, most often I see one of two reactions:

Eyes are expanding: "Wow, this is probably your day!"

Crooked grin: “So you ... do this all day, right? 😉 "

Well. Let's dispel myths.

Myth No. 1: The sexologist talks all day about poses, orgasm and BDSM

📌 Reality:

80% of the time is talking about anxiety, fear of intimacy, unrealized expectations, self -esteem and ... guilt.

A little like psychotherapy, but with an emphasis on the body, feelings and intimacy.

And the poses ... well, sometimes there are, but this is not the session of the session 😅

Myth No. 2: My patients are always “sexually liberated” people in latex

📌 Reality:

Most often, these are good, tired people in a sweatshirt and jeans who just want them to manage their proximity.

Men come with anxiety because of failures, women-with resentment and misunderstanding, couples-in the hope of feeling each other again.

Yes, sometimes there are unexpected cases, but rather these are jokes for a narrow circle of colleagues 😄

Myth No. 3: A sexologist lives like a hero from an erotic film

📌 Reality:

Morning: oatmeal, coffee, thoughts like "so, do not forget to print a training manual."

Day: 5 consultations, a break - a snack of banana in the corridor.

Evening: working notes, messages from customers with the phrase "Sorry, but you can question ...".

Night: I dream not about sex, but about blanket and silence. 🤷‍♂️

Myth No. 4: Sexologists know everything and are never mistaken in relationships

📌 Reality:

We are also people. Complex, feeling, sometimes tired and ... imperfect.

But we have one difference: we can reflect and admit that we need to work in a relationship.

You need to understand, listen, talk.

And yes, I was also once angry and was silent. Now - I try differently.

👉 If my work looked, as some people think, I would already write the book “50 Shades of Reception”.

In the meantime, I just try to be useful, to speak honestly and without a taboo.

Because sexuality is not only about “how”, but also about “why” and “with whom”.

👀 I wonder what you would ask the sexologist if there were no constraint?

Write in the comments anonymously or not - I will answer honestly.

And yes, no question is “stupid”. There is only one that you never set.